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I am divorced and have custody of both children from my marriage. My ex-wife hid her past as a drug addict from me when we met but during our short marriage she started to use drugs again. Our marriage broke down because of her drug addiction. We divorced and I was awarded custody of the children. She was awarded visitation rights, and the children were supposed to stay with her alternate weekends . Because her condition has deteriorated she is not capable of keeping to the visitation schedule and when the children do visit her it is a disaster. She takes drugs while they are there, and her friends, who are also drug addicts, drop in all the time. The children see their mother in a pathetic state and are exposed to the world of drugs. They don’t want to visit her and beg me not to ‘force them’. Their mother says I am turning them against her. I am sure the exposure to this could cause them permanent damage if it continues. Can I take legal action to cancel or reduce the children’s contact with their mother ?

Child Custody / Visitation / Contact Unusual Visitation Arrangements

Yes ! Where a father has custody over children and the mother is a drug addict there is no doubt that the children are at great risk and could suffer permanent emotional damage as a result. Where damage has been caused – or is likely to be caused in the future – the custodial parent can apply to the court for the cancellation or reduction of the non-custodial parent’s visitation rights. If a plea like that is made the court will appoint a professional (social worker) to make a report and recommendations about visitation rights should be cancelled or reduced until the mother is ‘cured’ of her drug addiction. A mechanism for the monitoring the mother’s rehabilitation will be developed and a follow-up report ordered. Visitation rights , if retained or re-introduced , are likely to be held at a special ‘communication centre’ where they will be supervised.

I got custody of my daughter because her mother is a prostitute. When I met my wife she was a bit ‘freaky’, believed in ‘ open marriage’ and was always out to earn ‘easy money’, if she worked at all. When we divorced she was quick to ‘give up’ custody of our daughter as she didn’t like responsibility and wanted an easy life. The court judgment awarded her visitation rights and our daughter, now aged 4, stays overnight with her mother once during the week and every other weekend. Recently her mother told me she had started studying – and was paying her way through college by ‘receiving clients’ at home. I know that she has at least a client a day, and sometimes more . I cannot bear the thought of my daughter being exposed to lifestyle her mother leads. What legal action can I take legal action to cancel or reduce her contact with her mother ?

Child Custody / Visitation / Contact Unusual Visitation Arrangements

A father who was awarded custody of his child because her mother was a prostitute or escort girl can apply to the court for a cancellation or reduction in visitation rights. The father’s case would be that if the child is exposed to her mother’s prostitution she is at risk, and could suffer permanent emotional and/or psychological damage as a result. If a plea like that is made the court will appoint a professional (social worker) to make a report and recommendations regarding whether there should be a cancellation or reduction in the visitation rights while the mother carries on this lifestyle. Visitation rights , if retained or re-introduced , are likely to be held at a special ‘communication centre’ where they will be supervised and the child will not be at risk .

Which parent bears the burden of travel costs involved in the exercise of visitation rights when both live in Israel ?

Child Custody / Visitation / Contact Unusual Visitation Arrangements

Where both parents live in Israel unless they live at a great distance from one another (e.g. at opposite ends of the country) there will not usually be specific mention of the issue. What usually happens is that it is taken into account in one of two ways. The first is by physically sharing the travel burden – so that on one occasion the non-custodial parent will collect and return the child, and on the next the custodial parent will take the child to the non-custodial parent and collect him at the end of the visit. The second way is for visitation  travel costs to be taken into account when the non-custodial parent’s maintenance obligation is calculated.

Is a father who does not pay child maintenance entitled to see his children ?

Child Custody / Visitation / Contact Unusual Visitation Arrangements

Yes! Firstly, the right to visitation belongs also, and most importantly, to the children, and is not the exclusive domain of the non-custodial parent. The children’s good or welfare demands a normal and on-going relationship with the father, in order for them to grow up and develop normally. The lack of a relationship with a father harms children emotionally, and adds to the financial damage a parent causes by not providing for their physical needs in the form of maintenance. In such a case, the overall harm/damage should be reduced as much a possible, and visitation allowed. However, together with this, the mother can and should file the father for child maintenance and /or file for its enforcement at the bailiffs.

Does a parent who is serving a prison sentence still have a right to see his/her minor child, even in jail ?

Child Custody / Visitation / Contact Unusual Visitation Arrangements

Yes. As long as a non-custodial parent is not stripped of his/her role as the minor’s natural guardian he/she is still jointly responsible with the custodial parent for certain functions including emotional development and must act in the child’s good. Being imprisoned does not deprive a non-custodial parent of his/her rights as a minor’s natural guardian.

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