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I brought action against my wife to divide up our marital property at the family court and divorce proceedings at the rabbinical court and, on the advice of my lawyer, tied in her maintenance. The family court decided on the division of the family home which was sold. After the sale, and before the house was vacated, my wife applied to the rabbinical court for an increase in her maintenance, relating to the need to rent a villa like the one we sold. My wife does not work outside the home. What are her chances of succeeding in getting the rabbinical court to make me subsidize her renting expensive property like that?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

The Supreme Court has held that alternative accommodation should matched to the previous level of housing, but it is possible to take into account that the number of inhabitants will be smaller following the marital rift, when deciding on the size of the new home, or the number of rooms. In other words, the new home may be smaller.

 

Our home was sold as part of a division of our marital property and the proceeds were divided between my wife and I. She refuses to divorce. For the last two years I have been paying her maintenance according to a court judgment. After our home was sold she filed for an increase in her maintenance because of the need to rent an apartment and pay associated costs. I feel she got a considerable sum of money from the sale of our home and can afford to rent an apartment or make a down payment on the purchase of one. Is the court supposed to take into account money that my wife got from the sale of our home when it decides on her plea for increased maintenance?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

Yes! The Supreme Court has held that in principle a wife is entitled to alternative accommodation as part of her maintenance after the family home is sold, but her financial situation afterwards should be taken into account .

In my divorce agreement I agreed that if the divorce ceremony did not go through, my husband would be entitled to pay me less maintenance. I did not turn up at the ceremony. Is my undertaking really binding, if I can’t be forced to divorce?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

Yes!  Although it is true that a spouse cannot be forced to give or accept a ‘get’ for fear of interfering with the validity of the divorce which must be freely given and freely accepted, a wife is bound by her contractual undertaking to forego part of her maintenance. She will be entitled to the reduced amount referred to in her divorce agreement, although her actual consent to divorce in the same agreement cannot be enforced.

 

My husband and I signed a divorce agreement in which we both agreed to divorce. I agreed to lose my right to maintenance if I did not appear at the divorce ceremony at the rabbinical court. I decided not to divorce. I understand that my husband cannot force me to divorce. Do I have a chance of succeeding in a plea for maintenance at the family court instead?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

No. A Jewish wife who undertakes to forego her maintenance if she fails to turn up at the rabbinical court for her divorce ceremony is not entitled to file for her maintenance at the family court if she does not appear to receive her get as she undertook. While nothing can be done to enforce a Jewish spouse’s consent to divorce ,even if written , as this would invalidate the ‘get’ which must be given and accepted out of free will, a wife’s obligation to forego her maintenance will still hold.

My marriage has deteriorated and my wife has avoided having sex with me for a long time. She has been hinting about divorce lately and has now filed me for maintenance. I suspect she may have a lover. If she has been committing adultery do I still owe her maintenance ? My wife and I are both Jewish.

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

In certain circumstances a wife may lose her right to maintenance under Jewish law if she refuses to have intimate relations with her husband. If she refuses on purpose to cause him sorrow without any reasonable cause, or because she has her eye on another man, then she can lose her maintenance rights. However, if her refusal is due to her husband’s negative behaviour towards her she will not lose her rights.

 

Is a Jewish husband entitled to get back maintenance he paid his wife, who is also Jewish, if it is held by court that she committed adultery while they were married ?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

Yes.

When will a man be able to persuade the family court to stop him paying his wife maintenance because of divorce proceedings at the rabbinical court, based on his allegations of her adultery ?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

Only after the rabbinical court makes positive findings about her adultery. It is not sufficient for it to oblige her to divorce . It must decide that she must divorce her husband, and reach clear decisions of fact relating to her adultery. The ruling must become final – i.e. no longer appealable. This means that either the time for the wife to appeal against the finding of adultery has already gone by , or if she did appeal against it in time, she actually lost. Then, only when she refuses to obey the final , unappealable ruling to actually divorce will the husband be entitled to be freed of his obligation to support her set by the family court in maintenance proceedings she opened there previously.

I filed for maintenance at the rabbinical court but lost as my husband persuaded the religious judges there that I was having an affair. They then ordered me to accept a divorce from him. Am I still entitled to maintenance at the family court in the meantime?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

No! Once a rabbinical court rules that a wife has committed adultery then she loses her right to maintenance from her husband completely. It is final and she will be prevented from being entitled to maintenance at the family court even if she actually opens a file there.

 

I have filed my husband, who left me, for maintenance. We are both Jewish. After staying at home for ages I have started having a social life. My husband warned me that if I start dating someone I will lose my rights to maintenance. This seems unfair as he is living with another woman – is it true?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

Yes! Under Jewish law if a wife has been proved to have committed adultery then she loses her right to financial support from her husband. This is so even if he himself has committed adultery – or does so now on a regular basis .

a photo taken of a wife kissing another man enough to cancel her right to maintenance under Jewish law?

Maintenance / Child Support For a Married Wife

At the family court a photograph of this nature will probably not be sufficient, unless it is really explicit and intimate, and it clearly cannot be mistaken for a social gesture. However, if the maintenance proceedings are at the rabbinical court, and not the family court, the risk of the wife losing maintenance based on evidence short of direct evidence of explicit sexual acts, is arguably greater.

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